My orbi mesh router only allows about 14 devices to connect

what are you looking at to determine devices are being booted off?  

- they are iot devices that i can no longer reach, my server, 2 thermostats, my garage door controller, and some others i can not think of at the moment

- i am running a server that is still running, but i can not reach it

- the devices are not under my manage devices tab, but they are listed as known devices

Are they actually disconnecting and becoming unusable?

- the devices are still functional, but they can not connect.

How long has this been a problem?

- since i got the orbi mesh, but i did not have as many devices then so it was less noticable

Any changes to your network?

- no network changes