New - RBR750 / RBS750 Firmware Version 4.6.7.13 Released

Alright guys, I've bee going through this dropping issue for months now. Nothing has worked. My RBR and RBS are on 4.6.7.13 now (autoupdated some time) and I've about had it. My RBS that is wired (because it's so far away from my RBR) is the worst offender. My other (non-wired RBS) does better, but still drops randomly. I did the things mentioned in these threads like turning off traffic monitoring and such. I've done factory resets, firmware updates, firmware rollbacks, all of it.

I'm literally at the point of chunking Orbi and moving to another brand. I'm not going to keep spending hours of my life on this. Are there any final suggestions before I give up?

Thanks,

Brent

RBS750 is connected wireless (another person owns the at&t dsl connection and the router is in that office, which is ~30 feet from the RBS750).

I originally updated the firmware from the Orbi app. Since then, the satellite goes into infinite loop of flashing white lights for 10+ minutes at a time, connects for a few minutes.... then lather, rinse, repeat. Kills all my work.

I've tried two factory resets, downgrading the firmware (on the satellite, via the web interface), upgrading the firmware (on the satellite, from the app) again. Turning things off, turning things on. Nothing works. What other kind of troubleshooting should I be doing? If there was a log that would tell me WTF the satellite thinks it is doing when the flashing white lights come on every few minutes to break my connection, that would be helpful. I guess I will try to downgrade both the satellite and the router firmware and see if that works.

Honestly, given the size of the building I am in the router shouldn't really even need the satellite to give me a stable connection, but the signal is terrible just a couple doors down on the same floor. With the satellite in the same room as I work, before the firmware update, things weren't fabulous, but I could tolerate it and have video calls. But even then, when things were "working", when I checked in the Orbi app which device I was connecting to, it would constantly hop from the Satellite (5 feet away) to the Router (35 feet away)... even though a continuous connection to the Router is not good service. Why can't it just stick to the closest device with the obviously stronger signal? (before this white light fiasco)

Orbi has been a huge disappointment and if this continues I guess I will just scrap these and be done with Netgear brand for good.