Modem, router and phone help me

This place is for you to suggest things that Netgear migt add to its stuff, not for ideas on what customers should buy. There's a separate place for that, but I would start with the product pages.

Try plugging your needs into the filters on the product pages:

Wireless Routers for Home | NETGEAR

and

Orbi: Whole Home WiFi System for Better WiFi Everywhere | NETGEAR

Then check back in the community for reports on the things you are considering, but remember that people turn up in this community with problems, not compliments. So look at reviews on Amazon, for example.