RBR850 / RBS850 After Firmware update the Satellite does not display in admin console but works

Just got the AX6000 kit router with satellite, I set it up using the phone app, that all went well. I updated both of the devices firmware (latest) and now the satellite does not show in the admin console of the router. The satellite is communicating to the router fine (got the blue steady light), I can access the satellite via IP address (which I found by plugging it in with a hard line) and I can even see what devices are connected to satellite but only if I log into the satellite's ip address. I do not see anything in the admin console of the router that the satellite is there. Another weird thing, when I log into the satellite, its the default password, it didn't take the router new passwords I created. Anyway how can I get the satellite to show in the admin console? Its not a huge inconvenience to log into the satellite separately, but before I updated the firmware, the satellite was showing in the router admin console fine. I would prefer it all in one place.  I've gone thru everything I've read on similar issues. I've factory reset both devices,. I went thru the whole new setup process and still the satellite wont show in the admin console. The only thing I thought that could fix it, but didn't try, was downgrading the firmware to what it was when I first plugged it in but Id rather not.

any suggestions is much appreciated!