ERR_CONNECTION_TIMED_OUT RAX70

Heloo all,

After researching here and trying some solutions, I've resulted to posting.

W11

firmware: V1.0.15.146

IP6 is enabled

ISP auto

I've been having this issue of some websites timing out. I do have to say I had this happen several times before and after pulling hair often gave up and changed/bought new routers, then 6 months later same issue. This last issue I purchased the RAX70, hoping resolve would follow, well here we go again.

I have everything stock. I also recently upgraded my modem (Netgear CM3000), the last one just gave me too many issues on a daily basis of connectivity, reset reset every day, gone now.

So back to my issues:

These "timed out" websites happen to be on a dedicated server, all 5 of them. I can get to anything else just except anything on the server, except for a time when I had one website going thru cloudflare.

On the iphone, or LTE I can see the sites, I also have wireless setup on the PC and when I enable hotspot of the cellphone I can get the sites, BUT lately they have been disconnecting after several minutes. I just recently opened iPad and with just LET was able to tget to server login, and update some plug ins, then when checked websites, connecting went array, and couldn't connect anymore.

I checked the community and tried resetting dns at the router, and network settings but didnt seem to help.

no clue what to do now, dont want to buy another router. This is the server ping:

 ping 51.81.221.52

Pinging 51.81.221.52 with 32 bytes of data
Reply from 51.81.221.52: bytes=32 time=39ms TTL=49
Reply from 51.81.221.52: bytes=32 time=42ms TTL=49
Reply from 51.81.221.52: bytes=32 time=38ms TTL=49
Reply from 51.81.221.52: bytes=32 time=39ms TTL=49

Ping statistics for 51.81.221.52:
Packets: Sent = 4, Received = 4, Lost = 0 (0% loss),
Approximate round trip times in milli-seconds:
Minimum = 38ms, Maximum = 42ms, Average = 39ms