Orbi RBR20 Separate 2.4ghz and 5ghz SSID's

Mstrbig, as for which node a WiFi device connects to, I experience this same issue with IoT devices (IP Cameras, smart garage door openers, smart plugs, etc). Whenever the router reboots, its WiFi is turned on before the Satellites WiFi. This race condition will cause IoT devices to connect to the first signal they see rather than waiting to see if a stronger signal is available from a closer satellite. The only workaround so far is to power-cycle the IoT device to get it to search for a new WiFi signal. Unfortunately it is not at all convenient, especially when I need a ladder to unplug a security camera or smart garage door opener. IoT devices do not keep searching for the best WiFi signal like smart phones and tablets do (devices expected to roam).

Suggestions to reduce power on the 2.4GHz frequency really doesn't work unless I could reduce the power on the router but not on the satellites. Adjusting the power level affects the router and all satellites.  You could try reducing the 2.4GHz signal power to see if it helps in your situation.

Implicit Beamforming nor Fast Roaming affect the race condition of IoT devices binding to the router before any satellites (provided the routers signal is strong enough). This race condition is due to the radio being turned on for the router before the satellites, thus clients bind to the first strong-enough radio signal they see rather than to a closer satellite.

I can understand that the 5GHz backhaul has to be enabled first. Once the backhaul is established, then the 2.4GHz and 5GHz client radios should be enabled simultaneously on the router and all satellites. I suspect NG is instead enabling the backhaul and all client radios on the router simultaneously, long before the satellites backhaul and client radio is working, thus causing this race condition.

Would Like To see Split Option On All Other Routers Including Mr60 As Many Devices Such as security cameras require this. Without This The Router Is Useless And Need To Return.

It's now october 2021. If the software geeks at NG can set the 5GHZ broadcast to be 100%, 50% or 25% ..... Why not 0%? Either just this little tweak - or allow different SSID between 2.4 and 5GHZ. This is causing MEGA dramas to me.

Good luck, we've been asking for years and they don't seem to care. 

I finally worked out how to fix my issue. Courtesy of the "Google Nest" team.

Did you know that if you put your iphone in airplane mode, then connect to wifi, it will ONLY connect to a 2.4Ghz network!!

Fixed my drama of needing to avoid the 5GHZ to connect a Nest Protect!!

WINNER - Google...... Loser NETGEAR